What is a bridal shower?
A bridal shower is a special event held in honor of a bride-to-be, typically a few weeks before her wedding. Historically, the tradition goes back to 16th century Holland, when women couldn’t get married unless their father approved the union. If a father disapproved and refused to provide a dowry, the bride’s friends and neighbors would come together and provide money or small gifts to help her start her home. Over time, the concept evolved into what we now know as the modern bridal shower, where guests shower the bride with love, well wishes, and practical gifts for married life. They can be a grand affair, with catering and bar staff, or a small party in the backyard. Other options are a spa day or weekend getaway with her closest friends.What happens at a bridal shower?
The general blueprint that most bridal showers stick to includes drinks, food, gift-opening, and games. Typical bridal shower activities include gift bingo, designing wedding dresses using rolls of toilet paper, trivia about the bride or groom, or cocktail making.When do you have a bridal shower?
Traditionally, a bridal shower is held a few weeks before the wedding day, though this can change based on logistics and location of the bride and her family. Some women like to have it the week before the wedding, so her guests won’t have to travel twice. Others choose to celebrate their bridal shower months before the wedding, to not steal the spotlight from the big day.Who throws the bridal shower?
Traditionally, the maid of honor or bridesmaids organize the bridal shower. However, close family members or friends may also take on the hosting duties. The key is to select someone who knows the bride well and understands her tastes and preferences.Who do you invite to a bridal shower?
Bridal showers are often a more intimate and smaller affair than the wedding day.The list should be limited to guests who are also invited to the wedding itself. Of course, the bride's nearest and dearest should be at the top of the list, including close family members, close friends, and bridal party members. Guests should be an integral part of the bride's life and have played a significant role in her journey, so consult with the bride to ensure no one important is left out.Do you bring a gift to a bridal shower?
In short, yes. Bringing a gift is good bridal shower etiquette. Gifts are traditionally meant to be items that will help the bride set up her new home, like kitchen appliances, decor, or artwork. However, it's essential to choose something that reflects the bride's tastes and aspirations –– there’s no point buying your friend a $1000 food processor if she hates cooking. But before you can start thinking about buying a gift, the event has to be planned! Here’s everything you need to know before throwing an epic bridal shower.Bridal shower decoration ideas
There are so many directions to go in and themes to choose from when planning the decor for a bridal shower. Consider the bride’s interests and tastes, and let that influence the decor for the day. Here are some ideas to guide you.PRETTY pinkS
Pink is always a good choice for a bridal shower! Whether you opt for pastels and soft hues or go all-in with bright Barbie shades, you can’t go wrong with pink. Pink Posy: For her entrance, a petite bouquet of baby pink carnations. (via BRIDES) Carry a posy. Soft pink carnations are a beautiful way to add this color to your decor. Make your bouquet ahead of time by using silk flowers; you'll be able to use it again or hold on to it as a keepsake from the shower!A Modern flower market
For a bride who loves flowers, consider a DIY bouquet-making station as a fun bridal shower activity. Choose a variety of silk flowers (her favorites, flowers in her wedding colors, or popular ones), and artificial greenery. Arrange them in market-style zinc buckets and invite guests to choose their favorite blooms and create a bouquet. A vintage wood chest becomes a flower station, with flowers and fillers in French vases. (via Ruffled)Print out photos of pretty floral arrangements and bouquets to serve as inspiration for the guests. Be sure to get a range of different blooms and unique and interesting foliage. The selection shown in the image above, includes amaryllis, lilies, hydrangeas, and tulips. Among the greenery are olive branches, eucalyptus, and magnolia leaves. To recreate the display below, use black flower buckets and slim nesting tables to create the tiers. Tulips, carnations, eucalyptus, baby’s breath, and ferns are all great options.This DIY bouquet station includes roses, tulips, ranunculus, and stock in pink, white, and orange hues. (via Style Me Pretty)
Make it look like gay Paree, complete with blooming faux cherry blossom trees. (via Martha Stewart)